document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Copyright 2023 Nexstar Media Inc. All rights reserved. 'She had to be admitted to hospital two weeks after we came home,' said the husband. DS Rees agreed that Melsadie was 'behaving well' and did not 'appear to be demanding' until the mother and daughter were seen leaving the station. Please report any comments that break our rules. . (Audio in Hindi)NDTV is one of the leaders in the production and broadcasting of un-biased and comprehensive news and entertainment programmes in India and abroad. The 27-year-old was seen with her daughter Melsadie Adella-Rae Parris at Taplow station in Buckinghamshire on February 18, 2019 for one hour and 12 minutes before their deaths. There are organizations and individuals out there that are trying to deal with this societal problem, but I think it takes a very special type of person to be able to tackle this head-on. 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Her life these past months may have sheer hell for and/or family and she believed that this was the "honourable way out", as the Japanese people believe it to be. Japan has a major cultural flaw. You are quite certain to succeed with something like this. That's truly sad. Spend some time reading up about mental illness and especially depression.". Many here seem to think that suicide is a matter of choice as is the means to commit the act. I find it utterly ridiculous that people call this woman "selfish" based on the fact that she somehow, in her morbidly depressed state of mind Selfish? why? It's very sad. Suicide is complex, but without a doubt, there needs to be FAR more done here for mental illness. 'Is it right that the outcome of that was she had an arrangement whereby she would be able to repay it down by monthly 143 contributions?'. i pity those who commit suicide though it may be selfish to others but yeah, they are not in a sound mind to think about that. I did not say her actions are good and i do sympathise with others effected by her actions.If anyone critcises are suggest she should have done something else, stop now. As for the deceased person, as we do not know anything about her, it is a little early to judge her motives. We don't know anything about her life I sort of agree that we don't have to critise herBut this happened to my husband many years ago - the guy standing next to him suddently approached the train as it was about to stop and the train hit him in the head. She was taken to Mount Sinai West, where she was pronounced dead. Perhaps some high profile celebrities talking about their mental health issues/treatment? I think it is wrong and low class to criticise someone who found that this was the best thing for them. There has to be a point where we can finally stop writing about the lack of awareness of and help for the mentally ill or emotionally unstable in Japan because someone with enough influence actually decided to do something about it for once. It is terribly sad that the woman felt she had to end her life, and needless to say a horrible experience for the four people hit by her body. And if you want to do something to help someone before they get in this desperate position, a little bit of kindness and understanding really helps. They do not dwell on the horror and get on with their lives. Its a mistake. Surely "taking it out" on someone implies intent Smorkian? At this low point rational thinking is almost gone, the main thing is to end the life. It is always good to be prepared for this happening to anyone close to you as this is so hard and frustrating to deal with. In . All of you who said "she was selfish" knew her right? Bihar News: - . Better to choose death. She was caring and a good mother. The inquest was told that between 2005 and 2015 while living in the UK, Zdenka had eight admissions to hospital, with half relating to being pregnant or having been pregnant. If you are screwed up, go into that forest at the foot of Fuji and do us all a favour PS - don't wanna sound callous, she may have been mentally sick, but it's possible this selfish woman has destroyed other people's lives. theres Thousands of Japanese who "dont fit into society" & they are fine with it & Don't care. I feel very much sympathy for the woman but after knowing that her family will have to PAY to the train company, (possible all other damages, compensations for other victims? 6 IRT train at the station at 68th Street and Lexington Avenue at 12:01 P.M. yesterday, transit authorities said. I also very much doubt that she was in any kind of logical state of mind when she did this. I have been late 3 times this month because someone thought to throw themselves in front of a train! Not one of you seem to consider that maybe this woman had fallen into depression due to the current situation caused by TEPCO or the Earthquake / Tsunami. Put up the fences and legalize suicide so people will go for a needle rather than a train. In this case I'd bet she didnt want anything more than what she got. There is a good deal of toing and froing.. As Cleo said - a permanent solution to a temporary problem. As a subscriber, you are shown 80% less display advertising when reading our articles. A person contemplating suicide is so full of their own problems they have no room left to consider others. Why, of course it is! Everyone could feel and understand each other as much as they understand themselves and events like this would probably cease to exist. been late to work three times this week because of suicides? OMG! Northbound 3 trains are running on the 5 line from Nevins Street to 149th Street-Grand Concourse. Wrong signal. I`m not a psychologist but that would be my impression. No one as far as I can see is accusing suicides in general or this woman in particular of being malevolent. Mr Wade said: 'The next thing she appears to do, she does when no member of the public is in her immediate vicinity. New Delhi: A woman jumped in front of the Delhi Metro train at Model Town Metro station on Saturday and committed suicide. Mr Wade asked the officer: 'I think your financial investigator looked at whether she had made a voluntary arrangement in terms of indebtedness through court proceedings. Swiftly after, the couple received a letter from the Overseas Department stating they would have to pay to transfer hospitals - which sent Zdenka's mood spiralling, assistant coroner Alison Mccormick heard. Expect delays on 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5 trains. Thank You. to seek help? herefornow - Taking time to put one's affairs in order first and considering how to end it all without harming others are both ways for the suicidal person to put their problems in perspective, see things in a different light and at the very least give themselves a chance to rethink what they're about to do. Seems the bottom line in some of these posts is "I don't care about you or what you do, just don't inconvenience us.". A very great part of the problem though, is that people simply withdraw, something very easy to do in society nowadays. All of you who said "she was selfish" knew her right? "I am going to kill myself, and I am going to make all of you late for work, dates, whatever in the process.". I place it on the society that failed to recognize the symptoms of her impending self-destruction (or worse, chose to ignore them), the cultural history of seeing suicide as a viable option to ending one's problems, and the lack of support in general for the prevention of suicide and the need to change this ancient mindset. This woman was obviously highly coordinated, had excellent timing and gymnastics ability. Based on the collateral damage you think was somehow purposely premeditated? OZONE PARK, Queens A woman was killed after she jumped in front of a train Friday morning, policesaid. 'We were aware that pregnancy was a difficult time for her in terms of her mental health. The unidentified woman was observed leaping in front of a. Police say although there were no eyewitnesses to the incident, the events were captured by a station security camera. Then, it sort of happened to me as well as I was waiting for Keio line - a girl and her mom were sitting on the bench and as the train approached the girl tried to jump. A smile or even some expressed concern, verbal or not, can go a long ways to helping ease someone's state of mind and break down barriers; at the very least, it will provide a brief reprieve for a troubled soul. I don't know the severity of that woman'situation, so I can't say what pushed her over the edge, but I doubt she had any people she could be open with or even had a shoulder to lean on. Bereaving families are not only stuck with a funeral, but a huge bill for the suicide. According to police, the woman, Premalatha of Senthil Nagar in Urapakkam, had quarrelled . Kiosk and bystanders apparently unhurt. Take the quiz: How well do you know LIV Golf? Woman killed by oncoming train in Bensonhurst: NYPD. If she'd had someone to listen to her - really listen - this might not have happened. I am so sorry for this poor soul and the people affected, particularly the poor driver who had to witness this. I doubt the woman calculated the angle of bounce. Our DIY expert, Beth Allen, founder of HIP Chicks (Home Improvement Project Chicks), knows which tools you need to take on big projects by yourself. Sign up for free Patch newsletters and alerts. There are times when the person is such a low point that death seems the only option. Cut her some slack. I think there can be no doubt whatsoever that the people hit by this woman's body are suffering trauma. To be honest I think this choice of suicide is partly due to the 'normalcy' - it is a very common way that the next person might follow the same way regardless of why or whoever else gets pulled into it, but also it could be like giving a middle finger or a big **** all you to society, because it was society that let the person down?? 'I noticed a woman in a white jacket back away and start running across the platform.'. It is six minutes after she places herself onto that platform that she places herself in the path of the train.'. There are hundreds of ways you can kill yourself without involving the public. So, after that experience I'm not so keen on excusing those people. Shortly afterwards, the mother and daughter were seen to enter Taplow station from Approach Road, where they remained at the station for around 20 minutes. contact the editor here. But also unlucky. Regardless of her true mental state prior to jumping, I place blame for neither the damages nor the resulting trauma on that woman. No. The inquest continues. host: ITV boss who 'forced out Piers Morgan' Police inspect burnt items as hundreds of officers and volunteers with sniffer dogs scour parkland for From nightmares to candy cravings, the seemingly innocuous habits in children that may be early warning What you need to know about new number plates on cars being sold across the country TODAY. I think we all have contemplated it at one time or another? The eight-months pregnant woman bought herself a ticket before running across the platform and jumping in front of a non-stop intercity train which sped through the station at 115mph - instantly . Royal Mail worker Zdenka Yabani spiralled downhill after a scan of her unborn daughter revealed the news that her baby was 'small' and could have a facial abnormality. And quite frankly, here in Japan I have no idea at all how you would go about it. Email: editor@japantoday.com Sweater dresses are perfect for cooler weather, because theyre made of thicker fabric that can keep you warm even when the temperatures drop. So yes, prevention starts in the early years. ', 'I did not think she was suffering a relapse at the time although it did not occur to me. Plus, in Japanese society, past and present, there is NO stigmata (sic) on suicide. www.ndtv.com. The woman jumped in front of a southbound A train at Rockaway Boulevard around 10 a.m., police said. I was in a rather cynical mood while typing that out in a frenzy. ), I am even more horrified. What if she was from Fukushima or near the area? "I have been late 3 times this month because someone thought to throw themselves in front of a train.". Pathologist Dr Rezan Guardi confirmed that the woman died from multiple injuries. Not one of you seem to consider that maybe this woman had fallen into depression due to the current situation caused by TEPCO or the Earthquake / Tsunami. A woman in Mumbai's Kandivali area committed suicide by jumping in front of a Mumbai local train on Wednesday afternoon. The coroner heard how the religious pair met while they were both living in the Czech Republic, before separately travelling to America and reconnecting. If you are dissatisfied with the response provided you can Did she intend to hurt 4 other people in her attempt to destroy herself? So what's the point trying to analyze it? Fax: +81 3 5829 5919 I know about this and how the mind will not allow rational thought, how all help means nothing and life is pointless. NOT everything is easy. cleo - You're right. 'On the day she had received news that some of her debt burdens had been relieved, if she had entered into a payment agreement which she did, and she was supposed to have started a new employment so her financial situation was potentially going to change.'. A Great Western Railway employee, Anna Bodja, who witnessed the tragic death, said: 'I heard the fast train approaching, I heard the announcement and I saw the announcement on the board. As for counselling, this country's culture is built on saving face. She was seen 'pushing' and 'kicking' against a gate to the platform. I wish they talk to me. 25/10/2022. What an awful person she was to do this with the aim of hurting others - mentally and as it turns out physically. I personally think the whole 'ganbare' and 'I must not make a scene' are partially to blame. I know they are not in their normal state of mind, but still, if one wants to end his/her life it's better to do it quietly and away from people's eyes. Instead of complaining about a few delays to your business i would advise learning a bit about what goes through peoples minds at this time.the fact that someone would actually go through with the act says a lot. 2) The person could commit the act suddenly and without others knowing what is about to happen. The court heard Ms Redmond had a bill from her electricity supplier of 334 outstanding, a bill from her gas supplier of 638 and she was in rent arrears of 1499.37. Of course it is sad that she took her life in this manner but people are not rational whne they do this. Suruga bank provides a variety of services including onlinebank accounts and loans, speciallytailoredto foreign customers living in Japan. The identity of the woman is unknown at this time. I agree with steve@CPFC, there is no point trying to criticize this person. Describing the CCTV footage, DS Rees told the inquest: 'Her behaviour, as a police officer watching, was not normal. British Transport Police had declared the deaths a suspicious incident and an investigation was launched by their Major Crime team. It is being investigated by police as a suspected case of 'child destruction . Your lack of compassion for someone who is obviously driven to the end of her wits psychologically for reasons none of us is privy to is staggering. Another example of what happens when emotions are pent up through the pressure of life in Japan. Rangers trade Kravtsov, waive Leschyshyn, Giants, Jets fans among most passionate in NFL: report, PIX11 talks with Adam Korsak ahead of NFL Combine, Moose on the Loose: New York basketball is fun again. There is SOME counselling, but it's still woefully inadequate and carries a certain stigma with it. Suicides usually choose JR over other lines as 100kph trains thunder through the stations. The Government try to hire more psychologists, but they are never enough; they address the symptoms, but eventually miss the root cause of the problem. On Monday afternoon, a woman in her 20s, whose name has not yet been released, died when she was struck by Amtrak Train 93, according to rail officials. contact IPSO here, 2001-2023. Watch the full video for more.Connect with Hindustan TimesPress the bell icon on YouTube for all the latest updates from Hindustan TimesLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hindustantimesTweet us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/httweetsFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hindustantimes/Find us on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/hindustantimes/Subscribe to Hindustan Times on Telegram: https://t.me/hindustantimes#Mumbai #Train #Rescue The MTA confirmed that somebody was hit at the station and that 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5 train service was affected by the ensuing emergency response. where a woman and a child were at various subway stations yesterday . It was found later from other CCTV camera recordings from the station that the woman escaped unhurt and got out of the railway station. 13, 2011 - 05:52PM JST Morre and more we see a lack of empathy for those who suffer.Modern society? Spend some time reading up about mental illness and especially depression. A Long Island Railroad train bound for Rockaway Beach was gliding into the East New York Station at Atlantic Avenue and Manhattan Crossing about 5 o'clock yesterday afternoon when the. over 100 people off themselves everyday, many use trains. Female carer who bit off part of a pub landlady's ear during vicious bar brawl is jailed for 14 months. The inquest heard that a member of the public who was walking down the stairs briefly paused to look at Ms Redmond, but then moved on. Zara's husband announces a two-month tour with his rugby podcast 'We met a Princess'! I think they should think about others rather be self centered. Nevertheless, that doesn't excuse the fact that Japan is in dire need of social support services, anywhere from distress centers for abused women or victims of rape to trauma counselling and psychiatric treatment. Ms Redmond was seen wrapped in a poncho, walking hand in hand with Melsadie, who was dressed in a little furry parker jacket and wearing a winter hat and gloves. Then again, she may not have been depressed at all. The coroner said: 'At this stage, Melsadie is becoming rather frustrated and upset with her. If anything, it was cowardice more than selfishness. The week a train derailment poisoned an entire town in Ohio, the transportation secretary, the man in charge of preventing train derailments, held a press conference attacking White construction . i wish people who post here would Learn MORE about Japan According to investigators, the woman, believed to have been aged in her 40s or 50s, was standing on the third platform at Shin-Koiwa Station at around 10:00 a.m. She then moved to the edge of the platform as the Narita Express airport service approached, on schedule, at 10:04 a.m. and threw herself in front of the train, which was travelling at around 110 kph. Northbound 1 and 3 trains are bypassing 72nd Street. I am not trying to be rude but making statements like "taking it out on others" is ridiculous. Yubaru: "But seriously here, counselling is available for those that look for it. The eight-months pregnant woman bought herself a ticket before running across the platform and jumping in front of a non-stop intercity train which sped through the station at 115mph - instantly killing her. Perhaps not by those who say, "well just make it legal". Furious motorist is fined 650 after council worker paints disabled bay around his parked car. ". Life is not just some inconvenience. For confidential support call the Samaritans in the UK on 08457 90 90 90, visit a local Samaritans branch or click here for details. Mother-of-four killed herself by jumping in front of train at packed station moments after sending a text and handing her bag to a stranger Woman was killed yesterday at Wigan North Western . 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